story Archives - Jamie English

Many years ago, I was struggling with my daughter, not sleeping through the night. I started looking online for others with the same struggle. When I was dealing with another struggle with my son a few years ago, I did the same thing. As I think about it, when I have the presence of mind and am going through a struggle, I look for someone else who has had a similar journey. It helps me so much to know I am not alone. It inspires me to know this doesn’t have to be forever, or if it is forever, we can find a way to cope where we don’t feel like it is such a struggle.

As a therapist, I get to sit front row for some amazing stories! Stories of insight…of transformation….of overcoming! I have said to many of my clients that I could see them writing a book or an article or a blog. Maybe I can see them speaking to various audiences. Sure, they don’t owe this to anyone. They certainly don’t owe this to me. But if they were to decide to explore that avenue and share their story, I think it could be an inspiration to many.

Earlier this week, I shared a quote on social media by Rosie Molinary. If you aren’t familiar with her, check her out. The quote this week spoke to me on such a deep level. I am hoping it will for you as well.

Your vulnerability is meant for building community, not walls. You have everything you need inside of you. You always have. Now, what you must know is that the world is aching for you to show up as you are. It won’t just change you. It will change everything.

I am writing this out and putting it on my mirror. I am going to show up more. Will you join me? You are the hero of your story. The world is aching for us!

I’ve been reading a book by John Green called Turtles All the Way Down. If my count is right, this will be the fourth book I’ve read by this author. As I am reading it, I comment to my husband that the storyline seems a little familiar. I think I said something like, “Protagonist is shy and awkward, has an eccentric outgoing friend, and circumstances set forth for an adventure in search of something.” Hubs says, “Yeah, like Looking for Alaska.” I say, “Actually I was thinking of Paper Towns.” But that was exactly my point. At first, I admit I was a little judgey. No hate on John Green. He seems an interesting fellow. And reading his work is a nice, light reading kind of break for my mind that is often absorbed into heavier material. Each of the storylines have some variations that are fun and intriguing. Plus, everyone loves The Hero’s Journey, which is virtually all of the movies and books we love.

And then my thinking took a turn, I started wondering about Mr. Green. Why is it needs to tell this story over and over? What does it mean to him? Who does he identify with? What is he working through?

And then what about me? What story do I need to tell? And why am I not telling it? What story do we each need to tell? Are we telling it? On the one hand, of course, I think we all have our own story to tell…but is there another one in there that needs to be told?

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